Words

Words have a way of bringing up memories you have long forgotten. This is my realization. I few weeks ago, a friend told me something about moving forward. This triggered a lot of memories from Finding Nemo to college days. 

 

Now that I look back on it, I think, in general, hurt people hurt people. Hence, I don’t really express (or I try to avoid it because sometimes I forget this affects people) how I feel no matter how things are difficult on my end because once you let things in the open, you cannot take it back. It’s consummated. You are left with the consequences afterward. This is a non-issue if what you say are nice things but often times, people confuse the word with what is “true” or “being honest” and “offensive.” I think most of the times, we say things out of frustrations. We wanted other people to understand us, but in the process of doing it, we hurt others. It could be how we delivered it, how we rephrase back the question, and answering it in such a way that we know would really hurt those who hurt us.

 

On the other note, I think I failed my 2^nd Exam in Obli. I read the cases, I just forgot what the decision was. My confidence in this subject is just fading every examination. Anyway, on to the 3^rd exam.