The Gays and the Lesbians

I am the kind of person who doesn’t have stay much of my time longer in a social networking site unless I’m not doing anything. All I do is update my status, read a few posts, comment on those things that made me smile and nod.

A few days before I wrote this post, I came across a change of relationship status on Facebook and was shock to see one of my friends changing his status from Single to In a Relationship with yada yada yada. It really struck me and it made me smile. And just today, I came with his post saying: I already found him. It was some what like a horoscope that predicts that this year, he will find true love.

Honestly speaking, I didn’t expect him to be with someone (I know his sexuality even before) since I viewed him as someone who wouldn’t go beyond the restricted level of friendship between two persons with the same gender. Don’t get me wrong. I am happy for him. I really am. The thing is…I am not used to see my gay friends explicitly showing their affection over someone. Although I am used to their gender peculiarity, I still can’t imagine seeing them with someone.

I have lesbian friends as well and I shudder to think about the stories that I’ve heard from them on how they see girls. They talk like a boy and act like one.

Was I being too judgmental? I really hope not. I care for them and I really hope they find happiness with their decisions in life. I value them and wouldn’t care less with their sexuality. Or was I being bitter that up until now, I have no one? I don’t think so. But I’m torn with the things that I believe is right and what my friends’ are doing, especially with my other friend JR who told me some vulgar things such as his purity. :(